Make a Life

People in relationships tend to be ruled by their feelings . Understanding challenges and dealing with them appropriately becomes easier when we focus instead on the relationship's higher purpose .

This applies to all our relationships, whether parent/child, friendship, business partner, or life partner. All our paths meet for a reason. With understanding, these relationships can grow in leaps and bounds!

Picture two horses pulling a carriage, with a coachman directing. The horses represent you and your partner, the shared higher purpose: the carriage, and The Source of Love , or God: the coachman who steers us in the right direction. With The Source of Love at the reigns, we can find the way in our lives and our relationships.

If we loose our coachman, things can go terribly wrong. The wheels will come off and our relationship falls apart.

to communicate with each other
to share your hopes and dreams for the relationship
to look at your lives from an eagle-eye perspective
awareness of the purpose of the relationship
to recognise how The Source of Love has been guiding you
What can you expect?

You will spend 48 hours with your life partner / friend / parent / child / business partner in private, comfortable, basic accommodation. Home cooked meals will be supplied. Ensuring maximum privacy, there will be no other couples to interact with.

For the first 22 hours, one person shares. During this time, the only interruptions will be clarification requests. The roles are reversed for the next 22 hours.

Sleeping only for a few hours, you will get tired - which is a good thing. As lateral (abstract?) thinking takes over, you will start to recognise the inter-connectedness of all things. You will be given written guidelines in case you run out of subjects to discuss.

The remaining hours are spent with a facilitator, discussing what happened during the previous 44 hours. This is followed by a partner-balance , whereby the two of you set goals and agree on the way forward. Finally, the Educational Kinesiology Balance procedure will set you on your way.

“Having been through this process four times, the first time with my husband to be, it has helped me to recognise my life-purpose, to understand why certain people were in my life, and it has healed relationships. All round, a life changing experience!” (Hanna Kok )